ALEXANDER CHEVES

Oct. 26, 2021 

Sex Unzipped: A Netflix Comedy Special 

From Netflix: 

Rap superstar Saweetie hosts a celebration of sexual health and positivity with help from expert sex educators including Dr. Ruth, Dami "Oloni" Olonisakin, and Alexander Cheves alongside candid comedians and uninhibited puppets. Talking heads include Trixie Mattel, Nikki Glaser, Dominique Jackson, Mae Martin, and Michelle Buteau. Only on Netflix.

Nov. 5, 2022

Private Parts Unknown 

From Courtney Kocak, host of Private Parts Unknown: 

For the 101st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Alexander Cheves — sex writer, sex worker, sex educator, and author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — for a primer on fisting. In addition to fisting 101 tips, Alex shares his experiences coming out, living with HIV in a post-PrEP world (vs. in the 80s or even ten years ago), becoming a sex worker, becoming a sex writer, and writing his memoir. We also discuss tips for exploring kink, how the pandemic shifted how he thinks about his sexuality, and why he recently moved to Berlin, Germany. 

Listen on Apple Podcasts or wherever you catch your podcasts. 

Sept. 9, 2022

Poz Vibe Podcast 

I chat with Matthew Hodson, executive director of NAM Aidsmap, and Lady Veda, queen of Dublin drag, about fitness, food, and the health challenges we face as people living with HIV. Listen on Spotify or wherever you catch your podcasts. 

Aug. 26, 2022

Himeros Backstage with Davey Wavey

From Himeros: 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer Alexander Cheves in a conversation about giving sex advice, taboo fetishes, unfulfillable fantasies, and why fisting can be a religious experience.

Listen on Apple Podcasts or wherever you catch your podcasts. 

July 28, 2022

Dennis Anyone? with Dennis Hensley

Two sweet homosexuals talk about sex, books, and more. Listen on Libsyn. 

Oct. 17, 2021

The Shaun Proulx Show 

From the lovely Shaun Proulx: 

Special guest is sex writer Alexander Cheves. His debut book My Love Is A Beast: Confessions is out now, and we talk, what else? Sex. Sex panics, pandemic sex, and more sex, in a for-real way you won’t get anywhere else. Catch it on SiriusXM Ch.167 or any time on the SXM App. 

June 15, 2021

Good Sex 

I talk about fisting and more on the Good Sex podcast from Lemonada Media. Listen wherever you catch your podcasts. 

May 29, 2021 

Paul Bright Films 

In my chat with Paul Bright, a writer and director of gay indie films, we talk about how sex scenes in gay movies don’t show what really happens, returning to an active sex life after COVID-19 lockdown, and my upcoming book. Listen or watch. 

Jan. 2019

Loveline 

I finally chat with my longtime friend, Dr. Chris Donaghue, host of the legendary Loveline radio advice show. Chris is the author of Rebel Love and Sex Outside the Lines — both essential reading — and a fearless, eloquent cultural disruptor. Listen here. 

Dec. 25, 2018 

Savage Lovecast (Episode #635)

On my second visit to Dan Savage's podcast, we discuss the disaster of Tumblr's porn ban and my Out Magazine article, "The Dangerous Trend of LGBTQ Censorship on the Internet." Listen here. 

Aug. 22, 2017 

Savage Lovecast (Episode #565)

I chat with author, renowned advice columnist, and one of my heroes, Dan Savage, on his nationally-syndicated podcast about my article "Straight Folks, There Are Some Spaces You Don't Belong In" in The Advocate. Listen here. 

May 2017 

The Swinger Lifestyle

I chat with members of an NYC swingers community about the importance of protecting spaces for all sexual communities. Listen on CityWorldRadio.com or AdultSocials.com. 

Feb. 2017 

The Shaun Proulx Show

I talk with the delightful Shaun Proulx, Canada’s "gay Oprah," on his show on Sirius XM Canada Talks about the death of pop megastar George Michael and the misconceptions of drug use among queer men.