writing
periodicals
sex and relationships
13 New Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming in Out Magazine (2022)
21 Tips for Opening Up Your Relationship in The Advocate (2021)
Everything you need to know about losing your V-card inVery Good Light (2020)
15 Queer Sex Workers Recommend Their Favorite Sex Toys in Them (2020)
How Six Kinksters Found Their Kinks in Them (2019)
9 Sex Tips for People Not on HIV Treatment in TheBody (2019)
25 Tips for Your First Fist in The Advocate (2018)
The HIV-Positive Person's Guide to Sex and Dating, Part One and The HIV-Positive Person's Guide to Sex and Dating, Part Two in Them (2018)
How Do I Know if I’m a Bottom? (part 1) and How Do I Bottom? (part 2) in Them (2018)
26 Things Gay Sex Workers Want You to Know in The Advocate (2018)
55 DOs and DON'Ts of Attending a Gay Sex Party in The Advocate (2017)
17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming in Out Magazine (2017)
15 Reminders That Pride Is Also About Sex in The Advocate (2017)
30 Kinky Terms Every Gay Man Needs to Know in The Advocate (2016)
36 Fetishes Every Gay Man Should Know in The Advocate (2016)
5 Things I Learned From Dating a Bi Guy in The Advocate (2015)
essays and opinion
Queer Sexy Beast Author Alexander Cheves on Why He Moves Often in Out Traveler (2022)
Turning 30: What It Means When You're Gay in Out Magazine (2022)
When It Comes to Sex Work, Kamala Harris Hasn't Completely Evolved in The Advocate (2019)
Why I'm Wary of the Hype Surrounding HIV “Cures” in Them (2019)
Confession From a Fake Submissive (NSFW) in Recon (2019)
Why I Got a Biohazard Tattoo for Pride in TheBody (2019)
AIDS Panic Should Not Be a Defining Queer Experience in Plus (2018)
Don't Delete Grindr — HIV-Positive Youth Need Us There in Them (2018)
World AIDS Day: How I Found Hope After My HIV Diagnosis in Them (2018)
George Michael Was the Kind of Gay Man We Now Whisper About in The Advocate (2017)
How Oliver Sacks' Book 'Gratitude' Helped Me Through My Breakup in Mend (2016)
Why an AIDS Foundation's Crusade Against PrEP Is on the Wrong Side of History in VICE (2016)
The Porn Industry Needs Your Love in The Advocate (2016)
Why I Didn't Come Out as Poz on World AIDS Day in The Advocate (2015)
Matt Bomer helped me embrace my gay identity in Project Q (2014)
culture and nightlife
Is latex the vanguard of kink? in Document Journal (2022)
U Host?: Why Traveling Is a Queer Experience in Out Magazine (2021)
Can Fetish Be Fashion? in Out Magazine (2021)
COVID Won’t Stop Atlanta’s Most Iconic Leather Bar From Queering the South in Them (2020)
The Cock Is the Last Filthy Gay Bar in New York in Them (2020)
After 40 Years, the Black Party Is a Testament to Our Survival in Them (2019)
Straight Folks, There Are Some Spaces You Don't Belong In in The Advocate (2017)
Going Vogue: Fighting HIV in L.A.'s Emerging Ball Community in The Advocate (2015)
profiles
Patrick Smith Is Leaving Marks on Kink Culture in The Advocate (2017)
Justin LeBlanc Fights for the Deaf One Garment at a Time in The Advocate (2015)
Why Mr. Leather Went to Uganda in The Advocate (2015)
Leatherman Eric Paul Leue Is Out to Abolish Sexual Shame in The Advocate (2015)
13 LGBT Latinos Changing the World in The Advocate (2015)
news and reporting
Eight YouTube Creators Sue Google for Bias Against LGBTQ Content in The Advocate (2019)
Sex Panic: New York Bill Attempts To Spread Anti-Porn Myths in The Advocate (2019)
The Dangerous Trend of LGBTQ Censorship on the Internet in Out Magazine (2018)
WeHo Protesters: 'No Bad Whores, Just Bad Laws' in The Advocate (2015)
Age, Weight, PrEP Status: Hookup Apps' Next Filtering Option in The Advocate (2015)
Escorts Unite in Defense of Rentboy in The Advocate (2015)
STUDY: NYPD Harming Homeless LGBT Youth in The Advocate (2015)
Gay marriage legalized in half the country in District (2014)
arts and entertainment
Professor Marston and the Wonder Women Is the Kinky Queer Film We Need in The Advocate (2017)
Deaf Gay Actor Stars in New Web Series, Fridays in The Advocate (2015)
America's Next Top Model Hunk Comes Out As Sexually Fluid And We're In Love in PRIDE (2015)
New York Sculpture Made of LGBT Blood Is Going to Church in The Advocate (2015)
The Imitation Game elegantly misses the mark in District (2014)
Coming together for The Normal Heart in District (2014)
A Tragic Glimpse of Gay Life in Hunted in District (2014)
Dragula commands our attention in District (2014)
Daniel Radcliffe gets horny in District (2014)
health
This Pride Season, ‘Undetectable = Untransmittable’ Needs to Be Your Mantra in Hornet (2018)
The World Health Organization Says You Probably Have Herpes in Plus (2015)
Is Your Penis Smaller Than Average? in Plus (2015)
World Health Organization: Red, Processed Meat Causes Cancer in Plus (2015)
sponsored content
Ass Me Anything: She Won’t Play With My Butt! for b-Vibe (2022)
Finding the Right Sex Toy for Your Queer Body in Them (2020) — sponsored by Lelo
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex in Out Magazine (2017) — sponsored by Bespoke Surgical
columns
"Bad Words" in Document Journal
My monthly column "Bad Words" for Document Journal began in November 2022. It will explore the intersections of sex and subculture. See the latest at documentjournal.com.
"Last Call" in Out Magazine
"Last Call" made its debut in print editions of Out Magazine in March of 2021. Found in the final pages of every issue, the column offers intimate takes on queer sex culture. Subscribe and support independent LGBTQ journalism.
"Sexy Beast" in The Advocate
I launched "Sexy Beast" in The Advocate in 2016 to bring needed sex-ed content to the landmark publication's web presence. Since then, he column has generated the magazine's highest web traffic since the publication went online.
"Ass Me Anything" with b-Vibe
Between 2021 and 2022, I ran "Ass Me Anything", an advice column on all things anal, for the adult pleasure brand b-Vibe. View it here.
"Get In Bed With Beastly" in Fenuxe Magazine
From 2016 to 2018, "Get In Bed With Beastly" featured hot takes on dating and relationships in Fenuxe, an Atlanta LGBTQ magazine. Sadly, the publication shuttered in 2018.
Sex columnist, Gay Chic Magazine
From 2014 to 2016, Gay Chic Magazine — Chicago's first all-digital LGBTQ lifestyle magazine — featured my sex column with edgy how-to articles and practical advice. Sadly, the publication shuttered in 2016.